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Lauren Frederick
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It’s the
summer before college and everything is perfect—well, almost.
You and your mom already made the trip to Linens n' Things, Office
Max, and the grocery store. Your bags are packed. Finally you are
ready to make the trek to college. Except, you’ve forgotten
to pack your significant other in your luggage.
Yes, that’s right. You and your beloved are
not going to the same college. He is off to New York and you are
staying here in the good ole’ Garden State. And you both have
decided to stay together.
You don’t even know what to think. You can’t
even begin to imagine—What will it be like? Will everything
be the same? Will you talk every day? When will you see each other?
Will your significant other miss you? How will your relationship
survive?
Human relationships are tricky. They can’t
be predicted and they don’t come with guarantees. At best,
your friends, family, and even partners can only give some comforting
words like, “It will all be okay …if it was meant to
be, then it will be …it won’t be so bad.” Although
their efforts are sweet and well-intentioned, you still have that
awful anxious-in-the-pit of your stomach feeling and your mind is
still spinning with questions.
You’re
attempting love at distance. You’re going to be miles (possibly
even states) away from your partner and you need to know what to
expect. You want insights and advice—not from your friends,
but from people who’ve been where you now stand.
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Delighted
to be published in unbound, Lauren Frederick is a junior journalism/professional writing major and
women & gender studies minor at the College. An avid writer, reader, and basketball player, Lauren
hopes to graduate in May 2004 and pursue a career in the publishing/professional writing field.
She'd like to
thank all those who helped her with this article, and all those who willingly
shared their experiences. And she'd also like to thank MHA who is a constant
inspiration.
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