Lifestyles
The Low-Down on Long Distance Relationships (page 1 2 3 4 5 6 7)

Related Links:

Other Stories in Lifestyles:

By Lauren Frederick
Staff Writer


It’s the summer before college and everything is perfect—well, almost. You and your mom already made the trip to Linens n' Things, Office Max, and the grocery store. Your bags are packed. Finally you are ready to make the trek to college. Except, you’ve forgotten to pack your significant other in your luggage.

Yes, that’s right. You and your beloved are not going to the same college. He is off to New York and you are staying here in the good ole’ Garden State. And you both have decided to stay together.

You don’t even know what to think. You can’t even begin to imagine—What will it be like? Will everything be the same? Will you talk every day? When will you see each other? Will your significant other miss you? How will your relationship survive?

Human relationships are tricky. They can’t be predicted and they don’t come with guarantees. At best, your friends, family, and even partners can only give some comforting words like, “It will all be okay …if it was meant to be, then it will be …it won’t be so bad.” Although their efforts are sweet and well-intentioned, you still have that awful anxious-in-the-pit of your stomach feeling and your mind is still spinning with questions.

You’re attempting love at distance. You’re going to be miles (possibly even states) away from your partner and you need to know what to expect. You want insights and advice—not from your friends, but from people who’ve been where you now stand.

Continue to page 2...

Delighted to be published in unbound, Lauren Frederick is a junior journalism/professional writing major and women & gender studies minor at the College. An avid writer, reader, and basketball player, Lauren hopes to graduate in May 2004 and pursue a career in the publishing/professional writing field.

She'd like to thank all those who helped her with this article, and all those who willingly shared their experiences. And she'd also like to thank MHA who is a constant inspiration.


Search | Archives | Editor's Note | About unbound | unbound Forum